Dating with a British guy. Confused about where we are.
Hey everyone, I need an outside perspective — especially from British guys.
I met this guy nearly four months ago, and things were going really well. We are texting everyday, going on dates, and it felt like there was mutual interest. At the first month, he asked that we should move to the next step and get into a relationship. I rejected because we only met twice at that time. After few weeks, I asked maybe we can get into a relationship. He rejected, the reason is he wants to see the compatibility between us and he still likes me. I asked where we are. He said we are in exclusive. Now, we knew each other 4 months, but still no one more step. We are texting, sharing our lives. Sometimes we discussed about the culture differences. I remembered that two times, he mentioned because of the culture differences, our talks become disappointing.
I’m confused. Is he just opening his options? Or really considering the things carefully? Should I need to move on? (For me, I can’t like several guys at the same time. If I like one guy, I will close my door)
Would really appreciate any advice.