Should I tell the girlfriend of the man who my now wife cheated with?
Context:
About 5 years ago, My wife cheated on me with one of her co workers.
Last year they ‘reconnected’ and started trying to plan to meet up again.
Whatever happened is in my past but what bothers me most of that he is there and his girlfriend is completely oblivious. They’re now getting a house together and I feel the need to tell her again.
I just think if it was the other way round, I’d want to be told by her if she knew.
Should I tell her or should just I let them play happy?
Edit:
Yes, my wife is still my wife, we had counselling and our marriage runs much deeper than just getting a divorce.
Yes, obviously at the time my wife’s involvement caused me much more bother than their side.
How do you anonymously tell someone if you don’t have their phone number, cannot message on instagram or Facebook etc?
How would you tell her?