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i found out i was four weeks pregnant and took the mife this past sunday at 6:30pm. inserted the four misoprostol yesterday evening at around 10 pm something but took promethazine and hydrocodone before to curb the nausea and cramping.

i didnt bleed the whole evening despite having cramps but when i got up to pee in the morning, i had cramps still and clots started to coming out. i had already started bleeding with the mife when i took it on sunday and had cramping but the bleeding and cramping didnt start happening till this morning.

im still bleeding now, but i was expecting to see bigger clots. do i need to re do the process tonight? im scared im still pregnant. im eating a lot and was super drowsy this morning till i took a nap during my work lunch.

im worried and do not want to be pregnant.

i took mifepristone sunday at 6:30pm and have been bleeding with clots. the blood has been dark red.

is this normal? do i still do the misoprostol? or do i leave it with the mife? please help.

UPDATE: im scared that it will be very painful and im planning on taking promethazine and hydrocodone to curb the nausea and cramps.

please pray for me. im hoping to never go through this again since i did go through it just three months ago. any comments about your own experience is greatly appreciated.

i (25f) had an abortion at home when i was five weeks and 3 days pregnant.

i was alone and over all because of the steps i took, it was comparably close to what a strong period is like along with symptoms of nausea and a fever.

when i was considering and going through with the abortion, my ex who got me pregnant had just demonstrated how unkind he could truly be towards me under minimal pressure. this is someone ive known for three years and over the course of those three years, he has been unkind and after deep evaluation, emotionally and verbally abusive towards me.

knowing all of this and experiencing what i did with him, i decided the best thing was to end the pregnancy and not tell him about it at all, out of fear he would not only tell my parents, but basically attack my character and judgment and make a decision to cut me off for good. now when i went through with the abortion, i had blocked him everywhere for a set amount of days but after a week, i unblocked him. for x y and z reasons, now we are semi-speaking again. and i have found myself reluctant to diving into the dynamic again and feel guilty as though i owe him the honesty about the abortion.

i dont know what to do. this is someone who i love very much and who has also shown me loves me deeply but mistreats me in crucial ways during important life moments. and i know this would be one of those.

for additional context, i did not feel safe confiding in him when finding out i was pregnant, weighing out the options of keeping it or terminating and even now in the aftermath and postpartum.

someone please tell me what to do. what worked for you in a similar circumstance. i feel like im the worst person in the world if i dont tell him and try staying in the dynamic but also like im letting myself down if i do stay here, knowing i made the right decision because of how this person operates.

i came on here a couple days ago discussing the fact i was going to do misoprostol alone but thankfully, a good girl friend of mine had mife from march that didnt expire till this september and extra miso pills. i didnt have to pay anything.

the only concern ive had if that ive had a lot of cramping on my left ovary side more than my right but as someone who has been pregnant prior and was a healthy pregnancy that i terminated, they werent ectopic.

my symptoms are cramping on the left ovary side, occasionally going to the right, and my pinched sciatic nerve acting up. for more context, i did a loooot of heavy lifting this past monday and tuesday at work and at home. i have some cramps that bounce around my abdomen but then disappear completely. no spotting, no bleeding.

anyways, i will be updating as i took the pill around 8 minutes ago and will begin the misoprostol in the morning accompanied by paracetamol 650 mg and promethazine 25mg an hour before the misoprostol to curb the nausea and pain.

i hate that this is happening to me again and a part of me considered keeping the baby but the person who got me pregnant is someone i have too much baggage with and would not be a good father or spouse to have a child with. if you guys could pray in Jesus name that this would be a successful and swift, easy and private process i would greatly appreciate it. thank you kindly.

hi everyone, i need as much input as possible and preferably from anyone in the medical arena. im f(25) , and im five weeks pregnant. this would be my second abortion ever. my first one was when i was 17 in high school. i did the pills but ended up having to go to the hospital because of severe vomiting and abdominal pain.

it was incredibly traumatic and i want to avoid going through that again. it involved my parents and deeply disappointed them, and i for many different reasons, still live at home with them and would like to avoid putting them through this again.

i am picking up the pill from a friend who did me the kindness of buying it in mexico and im planning on going over to a friend’s house for a day to do the process. i am not planning on doing the mif but only the mis.

the thing is, im also planning on taking promethazine + ondaesteon beforehand along with tramadol and advil.

i really want to avoid throwing up to the best of my abilities and make this as painless as possible. i want to know if this plan of mine is effective and if i could avoid traumatizing my friend too.

this is urgent and id appreciate all input.

edit/update: my friend who got the miso from mexico had earlier told me he was able to get the mif as well which calmed me down because everyone was replying i would need both but he just told me he wasnt able to. i am freaking out. will it still be effective if i wait a week? or do i just take the risk and do it with the miso alone? i hate being in this position again and i feel incredibly stupid and alone. please someone help me.