u/Better_Somewhere_741

My mother has endured lifelong stomach pain and migraines, but it have gotten a lot worse over the past two years. We cannot go six months without an emergency room visit, and urgent care every three weeks. She went through every test imaginable scans, endoscopy, and a lot more. Yet nothing shows anything physically wrong, She also tried every medication known to man without lasting relief. I am so emotionally exhausted. I need the best pain management doctor in the valley. I am ready to do anything for her, but I no longer know where or how to proceed.
Thank you guys for your time.

As the title says, my mother (51) keeps experiencing health scares at least once a year. She gets very anxious and then can’t stop her body from panicking. Either causing a migraine that no migraine cocktail in the ER can calm down or nausea so she stops eating and drinking water till she has to go to the ER. She went to countless doctors and there isn’t anything physically wrong with her. She’s just very sensitive as an individual, so much so if a medication side effect appears 1 in a million, She’s that one ( Im not kidding that happened before). she’s not acting because you can see how horrible it affects her and things like abnormal blood pressure and genuine signs of agony appears on her. It’s very painful seeing a family member nonetheless your mother suffer like that. And every time I start healing from that trauma, it happens again. I just I don’t know what to do, doctors can’t treat a problem they can’t pinpoint. This type of situation happens when she gets stressed over something that shouldn’t get anyone to that point. She’s killing her own body in front of my eyes and I can’t help her, she’s the best mother anyone could ever ask for and I don’t want to lose her. I just Don’t know what to do anymore.