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What's ICSE obsession of two braids

I used to have long hair like below the back but I had a haircut now they are just below my neck. This other day I was on my way to the ground for assembly that's when the P.T teacher comes up to saying Why haven't I braids my hair so like a good introvert student I told her that my hair is short *(I have layers as well as curtain bangs so no matter how much oil I apply they always stick out of the braid making me look messy and untidy)* she told me it's written in the school diary to make two braids and I'm breaking the rules she goes on and on about discipline and school decorum she said that "Pony banakar school aati ho male teacher aur ladke kya kahenge?" And "Sharam nahi aati" I mean wtf? isn't this slutshaming just because I made a fcking ponytail? Then said to make two ponytails like I'm a fucking 2nd grader or some shii so I just nodded and got outta there. Education system mein ye basic chize thik karo yaar!

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u/Bettybitter — 2 months ago

Islam is too problematic to be written by god

"They ask you concerning menstruation. Say: that is an Adha (a harmful thing for a husband to have a sexual intercourse with his wife while she is having her menses), therefore keep away from women during menses and go not unto them till they have purified (from menses and have taken a bath). And when they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allah has ordained for you (go in unto them in any manner as long as it is in their vagina). Truly, Allah loves those who turn unto Him in repentance and loves those who purify themselves (by taking a bath and cleaning and washing thoroughly their private parts, bodies, for their prayers, etc.)" —Surah Al-Baqarah (Chapter 2, Verse 222) of the Quran.

If we are the creation of God, Why would a god write in his book that menstruation is harmful thing or the woman is impure at that time and should be kept away from until they have purified? That doesn't make sense.

"And do not marry Al-Mushrikat (idolatresses, etc.) till they believe (worship Allah Alone). And indeed a slave woman who believes is better than a (free) Mushrikah (idolatress, etc.), even though she pleases you. And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikun till they believe (in Allah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikun) invite you to the Fire, but Allah invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember." —221 of Surah Al-Baqarah (Chapter 2)

Why can't muslim marry an idol worshipping woman? And what do you mean by slave woman? Why only Muslim man can marry Muslim woman? Isn't this promoting to forcefull conversions and limiting muslim woman/man to marry their lover just because they don't follow or believe in Allah?

"Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth (have sexual relations with your wives in any manner as long as it is in the vagina and not in the anus), when or how you will, and send (good deeds, or ask Allah to bestow upon you pious offspring) before you for your ownselves. And fear Allah, and know that you are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give good tidings to the believers (O Muhammad)." —Surah Al-Baqarah (2:223)

Why women being compared to tilth? What if the woman disagree's to have any sexual relationship with the guy? Isn't it certain the guy is gonna force himself upon her (marital rape).

"And make not Allah's (Name) an excuse in your oaths against your doing good and acting piously, and making peace among mankind. And Allah is All-Hearer, All-Knower (i.e. do not swear much and if you have sworn against doing something good then give an expiation for the oath and do good)." —Surah Al-Baqarah (2:224)

If an individual promise or oath should be an absolute moral obligation. An oath can be broken via expiation (kaffarah), it reduces the solemnity and binding nature of religious vows.

"Muhammad would declare the proper diya (monetary compensation in Islamic law for bodily harm or property damage) for the woman's loss. In each case, the compensation was a slave, thus indicating that the value of an unborn child was another human being."

It is said that the Quran came from sky which is very sus to say the least. Did Mohammed create this Islam himself just to make the people fool and conquer? Was he suffering from undiagnosed schizophrenia? I am willing to know more and communicate further.

Edit: Was Mohammed a pedophile too? When asked why he married Ayesha at such young age counter mostly Muslims come up with us "It was normal back then" or "That’s just how thing were back then" and It wasn't problematic to marry such young girls for guy who is nearly in his 50s or more.

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u/Bettybitter — 2 months ago