Found out my partner of 3 yrs cheated but I don’t have the luxury of leaving yet
So I found out my partner of 3 yrs has had a couple one night stands but I don’t have the luxury of leaving.
I’ve made the decision to stay until I can financially get onto my feet. In the meantime until I can leave, I’ve also decided that this is an open relationship without telling him. Judge me if you want but he opened this door. It makes 0 sense to me to be loyal when I know the second I’m not around him, he’s trying to screw other people. Two can play this game…I’ve decided.
At first I wasn’t going to go this route, I was just gonna break up with him, cut ties, and move back in with my toxic mom and hit up the guy that used to be my sponsor and save money as quickly as possible that way but then I was like why do I need to be uncomfortable and do stuff that I don’t want when I’m the one who got cheated on?
I’ll just do what my cheating partner did, put my needs first, be selfish, and look for any opportunity to cheat all while getting my life together. I’m going to give this 4 months and by month 4, I should be a licensed esthetician, get a boob job, and a good amount of money in my savings.