"Just live your life!" Sigh.
Wife & I have been uber-cautious since COVID began. We wear good masks (respirators like KN95s) everywhere we're around others, don't go to big events or family gatherings, and use nitric-oxide based nasal cleansers that so far seem to have kept us from getting COVID.
Yet, we are constantly hassled by family (especially 83 YO Mom) to "just live your life! already!".
Sigh.
I started studying COVID in early 2020 because even a simple cold would damn near hospitalize me (COPD & Asthma from 18 years of 2nd-hand smoke from 3 heavy smokers). THEN, I learned something even worse..
COVID. IS. A. VASCULAR. DISEASE.
Which is a BFD for wife, who had a near fatal heart attack 10+ years ago. Her Cardiac system is basically held together with duct tape and bailing wire. MORE Cardiac damage could kill her. And the way I get hit with even a cold..COVID could possibly kill me as well.
I've tried to explain this umpteen times. How I have BAD COPD & Asthma. Wife has heart issues.
And they just don't care.
"Live your life!" they scream, endlessly.
I'm SO SICK of trying to explain why we DO "live our life" the way WE (not THEY) want.
Just the other day, wife came pretty close to not being here any longer (long story). My Mom responds with "see? This is a 'wake-up call' to just LIVE. YOUR. LIFE!"
I responded with what she is calling a "lecture on COVID" and am...sorry, not sorry, Mom. Learn something. It might help you.
Anyone else able to relate? This is freaking exhausting.