Why would a guy seem emotionally invested for months and then disappear after meeting?
I met a guy through work. We didn’t talk every day, but we stayed casually connected through social media, likes, replies to stories, and occasional conversations. Over time there was definitely chemistry and emotional tension.
For months, he talked about wanting to visit me in my city, but it never actually happened. Recently, we finally spent a weekend together in his city and in person it felt very real — affectionate, attentive, wanting to spend all our time together, very couple-like energy.
Nothing bad happened during the trip. Before leaving, he even mentioned wanting to come see me and said he’d like for me to come back too.
But after I returned home, communication basically stopped completely. We haven’t really talked since.
I’m trying to understand if this sounds emotionally avoidant or if I completely misread the situation