u/BigWin9299

How do i stop seeking validation/encouragement from others?

I have achieved so much in life (and i mean this in the least arrogant way possible) but it still feels like it’s not enough because of the way i was raised that i would essentially never be enough no matter how much I accomplished or how much i overcame. I’ve internalised this to the point when i achieve another amazing thing i feel nothing like it’s expected of me what’s so special you know? And then i wait for friends or family to congratulate me to which im met with either no congratulations or something half assed. I just want to feel like someone’s proud of me, even if that person is just me. I always try let others know I’m proud of them and I just never get the same back.

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u/BigWin9299 — 8 days ago
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Need help for placement interview

It’s my first time doing an in person interview for a big company and it’s the furthest stage I’ve got in my placement journey I really want this job.

Do I need to bring anything with me?

Should I take notes?

What do I (19F) wear if they said business casual?

I normally don’t wear makeup but should I for this?

Should I wear my curly hair up or down?

Should I mention that I recently got an ADHD diagnosis?

Any advice would be appreciated

Edit: do I bring ID?

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u/BigWin9299 — 13 days ago