how do i get my boyfriend to have trust in our relationship?
my boyfriend and i are fairly young, and we have been together for a good bit. its been going well up until now, where he isn't comfortable at all wirh me looking or talking to other boys. we take promises seriously, and im always promising him that i dont love anyone else and i only love him. he thinks that saying one word to a guy is flirting and whenever he sees me talk to a guy he considers it flirting and is upset with me. i really do love him but its tiring when every day this happens. I used to be that way too but only when he would talk to girls because he has the personality that girls my age like, but last night I texted him about how im not going to be that way anymore, that i trust him, and that i know he isn't going to want other girls. it started a big argument because he thought that i just wanted to talk to other guys. he also thinks everytime im upset that i want to break up or be left alone for a while. someone PLEASE help me without resulting to breaking up or hurting him. i know he wants to be better for me but i dont want to hurt him and say things that's would result in us breaking up. i think I also am the way that i am with it because my parents literally call random people hot yet they still love each other. i just want us to trust each other and not have to go in a argument over something that isn't true.