Im just curious bcuz my ex who ended things said he was heartbroken over us even tho he jumped to 100 diff girls all the time. So like how can you be sad and miss your ex even though u ended it?
Whats up with guys going thru this hoe stage then all of a sudden they change.
Me and my ex of 3yrs broke up bcuz in the last month of our relo he had wandering eyes and couldnt stay loyal. Then after our breakup for months he went on a hoe stage (all online lol) jst talking to everyone and their mums and he even admitted he hasn’t even been loyal to any girl since me. I loved him so much that I couldnt move on and I was happy that I would see him being a slut cuz i felt like i won, but then as i was stalking realised that hes found someone he wants to stay loyal to. The part thats makes me sad is him moving on but also that he could be loyal to someone he hasent even met in real life but he couldnt be loyal to me when I was physically and emotionally there for him for 3 yrs.
He was perfect, he treated me well, bought me flowers, loved me loudly, made a effort to be close with my family, everyone would always say they could see the love he had for me and that I was very lucky. The problem is he is such a good guy that everyone loves him yet he cheated and left me saying he has wandering eyes.
I see everyone say that cheaters are bad and that u should stop crying over someone who was a shit partner anyways, but my problem is that he wasnt a shit partner, he was husband material. Part of me wishes that he was a shit bf so i wouldnt care as much but jn reality he wasnt. Apart from literally being cheated on everything else was what i want in a husband. He left me 8months ago and im still thinking about him, everyday it literally consumes me.
The best way i can explain it is like the Megan stallion and klay thompson relo, where everyone including her thought he was such a sweet gentleman who went above and beyond for her but still cheated.
Has anyone experienced being in this? how do i move on and stop letting it consume me? Iv gotten to this point where i constantly feel like a rain of cloud is following me. I can do things to make me happy and in the moment it will feel good, easy to hide, but that sadness is still very much present.
me nd my first love of 3yrs broke up bcuz he had wandering eyes, fast forward to now 8 months later he met this girl online and he has gotten rid of basically all the girls for her, even me. He went thru a hoe phase after our breakup so there was constantly so many girls on his socials but now for this girl he has gotten rid of all of them, im sad, ik this day would come when he changes for someone thats not me but it still hurts seeing it.
Ppl who been thru this what did u do? bcuz im in this weird funk where i feel like a cloud is constantly over me, i dont feel complete anymore and nothing makes me happy. Im disappointed in myself that its taking me this long to get over it.
I dont think I can physically and spiritually accept that he doesnt love me and is in love with another girl. Maybe dying is the only way to stop this weird feeling