Want to lose virginity but don’t know how
I’m 24F and I’ve never had sex. For years I was waiting for marriage but I don’t have those same feelings as much anymore and wouldn’t mind starting to be comfortable with my sexuality. I’ve been seeing this guy, we’ve been on 2 dates both of which we’ve made out so much at the clubs/bars etc. It’s a lot of sexual tension and he asked me did I want to go back to his place and I said no. He’s 27 and I’m sure he’s not a virgin lol. I don’t know how to explain my situation and that I’m open to exploring sexually but patience is needed especially because nothings ever been up there (not even a full finger) and also it’s a mental thing so patience all around. I know that most men are weird about virgins because they feel that they get “clingy” or find issues with the lack of experience and what ever else but I’m like 99% sure that’s not going to be me just because I don’t cling to men lol. I would appreciate some advice especially if you have been through this. Should I just continue to wait? Should I say something? Should I ghost (lol)? IDKKK
I also have a fear of rejection so that’s another factor