I (f24) don’t want to do anal sex with (m28) ?
So I’ve done anal sex with my partner now but I really just don’t like it that much. Like sometimes yeah but just the before it happens and the after, I just don’t like it. My partner knows I did it with my ex that’s the only one other person and because I’m saying I don’t want to do it, he’s saying it’s just a special thing between you and your ex then and he’s comparing himself etc. He is saying I said it’s a special thing which I did but as in like my personal opinion you don’t do it one night stands etc like he had, that was all I meant but he’s spiralled off with it. I just don’t know what to say, he’s saying that he feels like my ex was better etc and it isn’t that at all. I just don’t want to do it but he’s just way too much into his head. Has anyone else dealt with this please ?
EDIT - I just want to say a lot of the comments are acting like he’s pressuring me to do it. That isn’t the case one bit!!!! I understand his comments regarding my ex is not okay.