Are you guys put off by girls who love Kpop and the like?
hi everyone! I hope no one minds the question! I’m 19f, and white as hell. I love kpop, especially the music, but also the way group members interact, they choreography, and because they are visually striking people. I used the way they spoke and interacted to teach myself social skills, as I am a woman with ASD. Here’s the thing: I have a preference for Asian men. I am open to anyone, and have been attracted to people from all different background, but I generally prefer Indian and Asian men. Apparently I’ve always been this way, because my mom tells me stories of going to Asian Restaurants as a baby, and me smiling, cooing, and trying to hold on to the waiter’s fingers. I apparently didn’t do this anywhere else. I must admit, I was drawn to the K-pop idols themselves, because of their looks, and the way they interact with each other. I love Asian features, and have a deep respect for the cultures. They are all so different and amazing, and the food is soooo good too. I love the skin tones, monolids, hair texture, physiques, etc. I know that everyone is different in their clothing, opinions, choices, and looks, and I honestly I love that. I worry sometimes that I’m fetishizing unintentionally by loving kpop, the idols, the music, and collecting the merch. Minorities around me whom I have asked say that it’s doesn’t seem that way, but I was in an area with very little Asian culture or people, so I wanted to go to the source. Thank you for reading, and for answering my question. Please don’t be terribly harsh with me. I’d like to learn and understand. ❤️