Boundaries
She talks a lot about wanting people to respect her boundaries, but she never seems to show much respect for other people’s. Making her mum and dad have a buffet for Christmas dinner, waiting at her sister’s house at 4 in the morning for her to come home from holiday, making her mum and dad eat bland slop because if anyone dares to have a takeaway she will apparently unravel, gatecrashing Paige’s 16th birthday party, and overstaying her welcome at Lea and Cory’s when she went to Barry. It always seems to come back to everyone else adjusting their lives around her.
She’s so used to people dancing to her tune that she doesn’t seem to realise how contradictory she is. You can’t spend years preaching body positivity, then suddenly make weight loss your entire personality and expect people not to ask questions. Especially when the change is so dramatic that people are naturally going to struggle to believe you went from spending £3000 a year on takeaways to surviving on cottage cheese and yogurt overnight.
At this point, the double standards are impossible to ignore.