r/justalittletreat

Boundaries

She talks a lot about wanting people to respect her boundaries, but she never seems to show much respect for other people’s. Making her mum and dad have a buffet for Christmas dinner, waiting at her sister’s house at 4 in the morning for her to come home from holiday, making her mum and dad eat bland slop because if anyone dares to have a takeaway she will apparently unravel, gatecrashing Paige’s 16th birthday party, and overstaying her welcome at Lea and Cory’s when she went to Barry. It always seems to come back to everyone else adjusting their lives around her.

She’s so used to people dancing to her tune that she doesn’t seem to realise how contradictory she is. You can’t spend years preaching body positivity, then suddenly make weight loss your entire personality and expect people not to ask questions. Especially when the change is so dramatic that people are naturally going to struggle to believe you went from spending £3000 a year on takeaways to surviving on cottage cheese and yogurt overnight.

At this point, the double standards are impossible to ignore.

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u/Bisonette_4 — 1 day ago

Grown arse adult

Does anyone have the link to the videoum when she’s ranting eating a maccies calling herself a grown arse adult that can eat what she wants? I’ve always assumed one of her parents commented on her diet this night and she lost her shit 🤣🤣🤣

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u/Cool-Barracuda-9909 — 2 days ago

Where are the 3 lead BDL members nowadays?

Was on a random tiktok and saw Jodi2 comment on it, then it got me thinking where has she, Evenstar and Rainey disappeared to?!
They would fight for their lives on the comments section to protect their queen, but Rebecca would never acknowledge them.

Have they finally seen the light and seen her for what she really is? If you are on this subreddit give us a sign 🤣

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u/PigeonFace1 — 2 days ago

Filtering comments

I've done some tests and it seems after the negative response Becki got from her shopping video with Paige, she has changed her comments settings.

Supposedly creators can switch their comments section settings to "filter all comments" which means she has to approve every comment that gets made on a video. You can test this by commenting something random (even positive) on her video, then switching account, where you'll see your comment isn't there.

It's funny because she's now got to read every comment, plus her engagement looks crap.

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u/The-PantiePrincess — 2 days ago

Thumbs in the jackets

I maybe just old (and I do remember this being a trend in the 00's with bench jackets- of which I had a few and they kept me warm hanging round the park etc! ) but to go shopping picking things up with your thumbs in a jacket seems awkward? Is it not a feature to be used for running? Or for layering?

Again, maybe just be me being old and out of trends... but in the same breath does that mean she is on trend 🤔 *shudder*

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u/First_Pea751 — 2 days ago

Hey Becks!

Ive blocked her but catch up on big aunties reloads. Funny how she mentioned about "obsessed" with everything. Think Reddit is her bedtime reading story! Its cute, obsessed etc! I sense a little sarcastic clap back in her recent shopping video!

Also she still using the "on the go" song ffs 🤦‍♀️

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u/Proper_Average2813 — 2 days ago

Does she even get her 5 a day?

I know she has brocolli and sometimes frozen veg in a curry but honestly I haven’t actually seen her eat lots of fruit or that much vary in vegetables

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u/Clean_Somewhere6768 — 2 days ago

BDL's most used phrases

I've noticed a huge pattern in the clapbacks the BDL comment on big back's videos and it's getting especially common recently with all of the negative comments she's getting (to be fair, it doesn't even have to be negative. There are people genuinely concerned who are getting jumped on by the BDL too).

Anyway, here are two of my favourites.

"You're jealous" of what? No seriously, what is there to be jealous of? 🤣

"It doesn't affect anybody if she keeps her weight loss a secret" Yes, yes it really does. At this point her videos are extremely damaging to young people and those suffering from an ED. I have an ED myself, and her recent videos especially have had the negative voices creeping in my head. Even though logically I know it's not true or possible that she's done it on her own.

This wasn't really meant to turn into a massive rant but it did. I will never understand these people viciously defending a stranger on the internet. What a sad little life Jane.

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u/No-Rice2299 — 3 days ago

Reporting videos - restricted

I reported Becki’s video where she made the old school ‘sponge cake’ as I felt it eas absolutely littered with ED references and very harmful e.g not eating sugar at all, everything has to be ‘healthy’.

I reported it for ‘self harm’ as that is the closest option and tik tok agreed and have restricted the video! Picture in comments

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u/Dazzling_End4638 — 3 days ago