u/AcanthisittaDry8612

Not saying she doesn’t deserve it just want the tea🤣

I’m really angry about this tonight. This was someone who I met about 6 months ago. We swapped numbers and messaged for a couple of days but it didn’t go anywhere.

Out of the blue tonight I received a message asking if I wanted to go for a drink.

As you can see, I declined, however he kept going. Next thing I checked my ring doorbell and he was on my drive. 😡

I was probably too nice and jokey to him? But I believe I made it clear that I didn’t want to go out tonight, but he completely ignored that boundary and didn’t accept the ‘no’

It’s very lucky that I’m now quite rehearsed and have educated myself in these tactics. If I’d have said yes tonight, there would be no respect for my boundaries going forwards and that is how we find ourselves in these relationships. I just thought I’d share it for any women (especially young women) who might think ‘is he being romantic’ or ‘spontaneous’ as he called it? No. He was being intrusive and ignoring my answer.

I’m all for hearing if I’ve been too friendly in my responses etc! It’s a problem of mine that I’m too polite and people pleasing so I would agree. But also I think made it clear that I didn’t want a date tonight.

Tl;dr man I’ve met once months ago turns up at my house after asking me to come out (which I declined)

My bf reposted this on TikTok but when I asked he said it’s not about me. So why is he reposting it then?😭 am I being weird or something like I don’t understand why he’s repost it if it wasn’t about me. And if it’s not about me then why is he reposting stuff about other peoples relationships. Idk am I overreacting?

Some messages I received from my boyfriends sister after she fell out with me because I asked her how some information that my mom told her in confidence got out to people, she denied it and then later that night became really defensive and messaged me saying I’m not her sister anymore and to give her 5 pound back for a coffee she bought me 😂 she’s 27 years of age

Also the story I reposted off my friends story as I seen it and agreed with it, it wasn’t anything to do about her or anyone just about current living situations

Show me some of your dogs’ birthday cakes😆

Bonnie and my dad were inseparable. They won showline competitions together (best trained in U.K.) they never went a day without eachother. He died and she followed exactly 2 weeks later ❤️🪽 she was 10 years old but she was still extremely active up until the second she died. My dad died at home and she sniffed his hand after he passed and then went and lied down, usually she’d be jumping all over him. We think she died of a broken heart

anyone else’s gsd have non stop energy ? Any tips on how to calm her dowm she screams when she sees the lead or being let outside and won’t chill if I’m not with her🤣