r/OpenDogTraining

I did and genuinely thought being a good owner meant making sure my dog knew I was in charge. If he didn't do what I wanted, I took it as him testing me.

Looking back, it's horrible how often I made things into a confrontation that didn't need to be one.

He's anxious now and doesn't want me to pet him. That's the part I find hardest to admit. I wanted a dog who trusted me, and I think I damaged so much of that trust while telling myself I was training him properly.

It's taken me five years to question things I was so sure about. Five years with the same dog, and I'm only now realising how much I need to change.

I've started again with gentle, basic training in woofz and now reading a book called the Other End of the Leash recommended by someone here. I also keep coming across TikTok videos of people working patiently with their dogs, and some of them make me wish I'd seen this approach years ago. But i am also trying their approaches.

The worst part is wanting to cuddle him because I feel guilty, while knowing he doesn't want that right now. So I'm trying to respect that too and give him space.

If you've had to rebuild trust with your own dog, I'd really appreciate hearing about it. Especially everyday things that helped them feel comfortable around you again. thank you

I recently(2 days ago) got a 5 month old gsd puppy. He’s a rescue, and was rehomed to me, and he’s a lovely all black boy who I’m happy to have the opportunity to continue life with! He’s curious , friendly and very playful (aside from with toys much so far)

Prior to receiving him, I was made aware of one thing he struggled with, and that was walking on the leash. I knew a lot of people have experienced a multitude of similar things when it comes to teaching dogs the leash is fun, and I hoped to get recommendations on things that helped others progress.

at the moment we’re unsure if he experienced any abuse when it comes to leash pressure, but it’s definitely not out of the question. He has a slight uncomfortable response to seeing the leash itself , and doesn’t engage with it but won’t refuse to put it on- however any leash pressure what so ever does not work, and he will stand firmly and uncomfortably, which makes me feel more so that he had bad experiences prior being rescued., Im worried about being able to take him out for walks and hikes without him being unable to enjoy them, and I would really appreciate any suggestions on methods to use over time to help him learn the leash is safe for him !