please help, glans is very sensitive
hi all,
i'll try to keep this short and then provide more info if requested. I'm in my mid-20s. I used to not be able to pull my foreskin back to expose my glans at all, but after stretching for a few months, I'm now able to retract it fully. However, my glans is very sensitive, and not in the "good" way. It is extremely uncomfortable to the touch (a bit painful too), and applying any type of pressure feels awful. Gently poking my glans is tolerable, but I have to use Q-tips to clean it and remove small pieces of smegma because it is extremely uncomfortable to touch it.
When I'm doing sexual things with others, I become so aroused that most (if not all) of my glans becomes naturally exposed. Unfortunately, no one has ever been able to pleasure my penis, so I end up just focusing on pleasuring them. i have never been able to "finish" in any of my sexual experiences and it's so fucking depressing... Also, only way I can masturbate is if I'm rubbing my penis on a towel while laying on my stomach. Using my hands (and getting handjobs) has never done anything for me, as if all my sensation is on specific parts of my foreskin. If I become too aroused though, my glans gets exposed, and I can no longer finish.
i know i can "desensitize" my glans, but it's very difficult to do it for a decent amount of time because I have to manually hold back the foreskin. i've tried desensitizing it for half a year and it's still just as sensitive. i don't want to use "tape" or whatever to hold back the foreskin as I walk around, im scared to injure the delicate skin... I've seen a urologist and he just kept recommending circumcision for this problem
please help, i dont know what to do and im so tired of it. i am on the verge of tears as I write this. thank you all