Slow loser

Slow loser

Five months ago, in February 2026, I had gastric bypass surgery.

My highest weight was 218 kg (480 lbs). On the day of my surgery, I weighed 180 kg (397 lbs). Today, about five months later, I weigh 156 kg (344 lbs).

I know my progress may look significant on paper, but the reality is that I'm a very slow loser. Every day is still a battle with hunger, and for months I've been eating around 1,500 - 1,800 calories a day.

Recently, I started taking Ozempic again, and thankfully it has made a huge difference. The constant hunger has become much more manageable, and I'm now averaging around 1,400 calories per day.

Despite the struggles, I feel so much better. I wear clothes I actually enjoy, I fit comfortably in regular chairs again, and moving around has become so much easier.

The strange part? Nobody seems to notice the weight I've lost. It's not just that people don't comment, they genuinely don't seem to recognize that I've changed, even people who haven't seen me in six months.

But that's okay. I'm not doing this for other people's validation. I'll keep going, one step at a time, and I hope to reach my goal weight.

u/BjornFlicka — 1 day ago
▲ 4 r/women

Painful vagina area

Sorry for the really gross picture.
Since several weeks I have had very painful spots in my vaginal area.
It started with one spot and now it looks like this.
What could this be?
I would rather not go to a GP, since they are all old men.

https://i.imgur.com/g5Gb2kb.png

u/BjornFlicka — 9 days ago
▲ 2 r/AskDocs+1 crossposts

Very painful thing in groin area.

40-year-old female, 180 cm, 150 kg, thyroid medication, non-smoker, gastric bypass in February.

For the past 6 to 7 weeks, I have had a very painful spot in my groin, exactly where the edge of my underwear sits.
At first, I thought it was an infection or a pimple because it caused the same kind of pain. However, yesterday I took a closer look and realized it is something different.
It is extremely painful, even when I am not wearing any clothing.

What could this be, and how can I get rid of it?

https://i.imgur.com/1XNrygX.jpg

It

u/BjornFlicka — 25 days ago