u/BlackAndWhite0701

Is it considered as cheating?

Problem/Goal: 6 years kami ng gf ko. Nagbreak kami ng September pero after 2 months nagkaroon kami ulit ng communication. Right now, I don’t know where we are, don’t even know kung in a relationship ba kami. Is it cheating if I start talking and be interested in someone else?

Context: Nagbreak kami dahil na-fall out of love siya then nagkausap ulit. Throughout ng months ng pag-uusap namin, sabi niya hindi naman daw talaga siya nafall out of love napagod lang daw siya sa concept ng “relationship”. Yung constant update, yung may need i-please or pasayahin. She wants freedom. We still use endearments like Love or Mahal. We still “act” like we are in a relationship. Doon pa rin siya natutulog sa bahay namin some days ng week. Nagtry ako i-ask kung ano ba talaga kami right now pero walang clear answer eh. I am starting to lose interest. Mahal ko siya. Mahal na mahal. Pero parang pointless sa akin kung ganito kami and hindi ko alam kung saan ako lulugar. Recently, I’ve been telling people na single talaga ako. I want to start talking to other people. I wanna feel the spark again of talking to someone.

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u/BlackAndWhite0701 — 2 days ago