Should I end it
So my wife & I hit a rough patch few months ago. She’s been saying we need to fix the individual before we can fix our relationship. So we’ve basically gone back to being friends. She says she has no time for relationship because I wasn’t doing what I was supposed to do in relationship so she’s tired of begging for what she needs in it.
Now let’s go back few months ago I found out while I was away she was texting her ex & sending him inappropriate pictures & messages. When confronted she didn’t see it as cheating & basically said she sought out attention because she wasn’t getting it at home. I told her stop talking to this guy I tried to move on from that. COME now to present day we still not that same as we were because she’s not focused on our relationship. She’s now texting the same guy I just so happened to glance at her phone while sitting next to each other. I confront her she’s like she doesn’t see the big deal because his grandmother is dying she went to offer some comfort because they grew up together. AM I WRONG to just want to stop working on your relationship. We have 2 kids so it’s tough.
SIDE NOTE: I have been checked out of our relationship when it came to romance because I was so focused on work. So I get the decline in our relationship due to me not being considerate & there for her needs.