AIO for leaving my sex addict husband
Context: I have been with this man for 5 years now. We have 2 toddlers and 1 on the way.
Lately he keeps begging me for intercourse but I am 6 months pregnant with 2 toddlers that he barely helps with!! And when I do say yes, he does NOTHING to cater to my needs or ease me into it, he always just wants head or quick sex.
Anyways, we’ve been arguing a lot lately so naturally I gravitate to his phone to see if there’s someone else. Nope, every night he’s just been looking up transgender porn.
When I was pregnant with our first kid, I caught him on grindr and he admitted to me he might be Bi. It was a hard pill to swallow and I told him I don’t do Bi men however I do love him so I asked him if he watches porn, can it just be me? He agrees. Second baby comes and he still looks these things up. I’m freshly postpartum, it’s fucking up my confidence and attraction to him. I beg him to just stop consuming porn because it’s ruining our relationship and I don’t feel connected to him anymore. He vows to never do it again. Fast forward to tonight, we argue, he goes to bed, I search his phone and there they are alllll on twitter. I’m talking transgender, gay and lesbian stuff. He’s been watching it for months.
I’m not even sad anymore just pissed and ready to leave his ass. Am I overreacting because I’m insecure? Let me know before I do some drastic.