Like SPH and horribly insecure at the same time. It’s killing me.
So I am just average 5.5”, sometimes I get to 6” depending on the strength of my erection, so by no means am I small. But I love love love a woman making fun of me for being small IN THE MOMENT. Then after I go back to being very insecure, hoping that I’m enough, fear of being a disappointment, etc.
a feeling I’m sure many people here have experienced.
Is anyone else like this? What do you do to combat these feelings? I know you can’t make a kink go away but is there any advice yall can give for navigating these polar extremes? Even if I don’t watch porn and use my imagination, I always find myself going back to imagining an SPH situation.
I don’t need it to get off, and infact only 1 of my sexual partners even knew I had this kink, but I can’t shake it. It’s very frustration and fills me with as much guilt as it does taboo pleasure.