r/averagedickproblems

Can men with 4.4-4.5" girth and a head thats uniform to the shaft feel anything during sex? Men with this girth, how much pleasure do you feel?

I'm very satisfied with length, not just enough but I'm happy with it. but when it comes to girth I have some insecurities. I know guys here looking to get big for different reasons and would like to know guys who are in my girth range how has been your experience and how many women you slept with. I think I'm on my way to accepting who I'm. So guys who are in my range sharing experience and trick they use is very much help me.
I feel thin tbh but I mean someone got to be thin. I don't mind getting called as small actually, since I changed my mind to see if she gets off with me as the real goal.

If you could be this bone pressed length would you be content with it and not insecure?

Warning: English is not my native language.

When I was in high school (around 15), I went on a trip with my classmates. I was still in the closet as gay, but one night the conversation turned to girls, sex, and masturbation, and I felt the urge to jerk off. I went to the bathroom to "pee"—though I actually went to masturbate—and somehow, it seems they saw me doing it. The next day, they were making comments and jokes about small penises and the shape of mine (it curves quite a bit upward, against my abdomen); they didn't explicitly say it was about me, but it was obvious they were mocking me.

Since then, I haven't measured my penis—just in case it turned out to be small. I know it has changed, and plenty of guys have told me it’s a good size—even big—and that they like the shape, but I prefer not to know the exact size, just in case it disappoints me.

I know size doesn't matter, but when I'm hooking up with someone and they ask how big it is, I prefer to tell the truth and say I haven't measured it.

No one’s found anything to increase size even by half an inch?😭 I’ll literally do almost anything🙃

I’m not really content with my size… my height… just not even me at times. My genetics did not favor me in the areas that matter the most in this case.

What’s worse? My own brothers have larger sizes; like 7+ (I didn’t want to get specifics from them but it’s 7 or 8something) which I’m happy for them but DAMMIT! Could I hit a reset button?

Anywho, I just wanted to vent a bit…

I have 14 cm long and 15 cm wide(girth) penis and everytime ı am with a girl i just lose it and get anxiety.Even if she tells me thst she liked it she never comes back.So I am %100 sure thst women are looking for huge cocks.

My absolute max at my hardest pushing firmly and sort of straightening my slight curve is 7 inches, but if I’m not trying to do all that it’s more consistently 6.75 what should be the true bp size?

ik this isn't rly a dick problem but I'm curious

So I've been lurking here for a while, always kinda wondering if I'm actually average or if I'm coping.

It's not tiny, but it's definitely not the porn dick either. I know from experience it's not stretching anyone out like the big boys.

Anyone else have this exact "it's there, it's fine, but it's not gonna make anyone gasp" situation? How do you guys deal with the occasional "is this enough?" brainworms? Especially when you're with someone who's had bigger before.

Just need to know I'm not alone in the average trenches.

Looking for men who are in same range who have had great sex life. Could you tell me tricks and tips you used to make the sex better. make her orgasm and especially if you have given leg shaking eye rolling level orgasm how did you did it.
If you have tried threesome, couple swapping etc how did it went. (no SPH)
Also how did you make you size not limiting you.

i know this dont have nothing do with sub but gf just got mad because she gave me a handjob for 40 mins and couldnt get back hard instantly 1 minute later

I have a hypothesis that I haven't seen discussed much, and I'm curious whether there's any research on it.

Many surveys suggest that women tend to estimate the average penis size as being larger than it actually is. A common explanation is exposure to pornography, but I wonder if there's another factor that could contribute.

My idea is based on selection bias.

Men with very small penises or micropenises are, on average, more likely to experience body image issues and lower sexual confidence. If that's true, they may have fewer sexual partners over their lifetime.

On the other hand, men with larger-than-average penises often report feeling more confident about their bodies. Greater confidence could lead to more frequent sexual activity and a higher number of partners.

If both assumptions are even partially true, then the pool of men women are exposed to sexually would not be representative of the overall male population. Women wouldn't be sampling the true distribution - they would be sampling a distribution weighted toward men who have more sexual partners.

In other words, even if the biological average is around 5–5.5 inches erect, the experienced average from a woman's perspective could be somewhat higher simply because men with above-average confidence are overrepresented among sexually active partners.

This wouldn't require women to consciously exaggerate or remember incorrectly - it would just be a consequence of sampling bias.

Does anyone know of research that has tested this idea, or are there obvious flaws in the reasoning that I'm missing?

Im a 17yo boy in 4 months I'll be 18 my dick is 15cm length and in girth it's 13cm,i wanna have sex with someone but im scared of getting laughed on because of my size i always see bigger than mine that what makes me feel like that, i need a honest response from you all please

I have an average penis, maybe even on the higher average end. But I am pretty tall (6'1 or 186cm) and have big hands, plus it curves upwards, so I always feel like it's a lot smaller than it looks. Plus, all the porn actors being short and their dicks looking massive comparatively doesn't help.

Anyone else struggle with this?

Having an average sized dick myself, I constantly feel doubt. It's certainly not bad but also not really good imo.

Does anyone of you learned to feel good over your average sized (length and girth) dick?

I’m shorter than average here, but have decent girth. I just turned 70 and still having active sex. About 12 years ago, I met a woman who would change my life. We met on-line first, then IRL, developed some chemistry and then had our first sex date. She had multiple orgasms from vaginal sex the first time we fucked. We continued to date, fuck and build a relationship. Two years later we moved in together and recently celebrated our 8th anniversary. Wifey has told me how she describes my dick to her close friends “thick enough to fill my pussy, long enough to make me cum, and short enough to deep throat without gagging”.

Not that I didn’t have sex before age 58, but most of my top 10 sex moments occurred with Wifey. Wishing everyone the luck to find their best sex partner!

We got drunk the other day and started talking about our past and she told me of the 12 guys she fucked 5 were bigger.

I thought I wouldn’t care (and didn’t in the moment) but now I’m sober and holy fawkkk I feel emasculated.

Anyone else deal with this? How’d you get past it?

I’m not very experienced in sex and I haven’t been able to try a lot of positions, but I have a date soon and while talking about what we liked sexually she mentioned her favorite positions were prone bone and doggystyle. I’m excited but nervous because she’s very curvy and has a big butt ( similarly built like Bebe Rexha or Bryce Dallas Howard). That lead me to think what sizes are required to make it past certain butts in prone bone like a Jessica Biel or Annasophia Robb vs a butt like Serena Williams or Megan thee Stallion

( I’m also 6nbp and 6.5bp)

I'm a small guy. Around 5 inches bone press and pretty thin.

I heard a lot of advice for smaller guys, as you probably know, one of the most common ones is "become a guru of oral and toys and she will be craving for your dick despite the size"

So I did just that. I've tried to compensate my insecurities by studying on how to be the best I can at oral sex and foreplay. And my partner is very happy about that.

The problem is the second part of the advice. The "craving for your dick after she gets her orgasm"

It's bs.

She does nothing to me. I've never received oral from her nor does she ever take the lead. She rarely let's me do PiV and when we do it's lights of missionary with a dead fish.

However she swears she desires me very much. But I think is the size what's it's turning her off.

So TLDR: "Do oral and she will be craving for your small dick" is BS because no matter what you do, no woman will crave for a small dick.

In tall but average range of course so it’s genuine curiosity