u/Bleishfe

I’m 25, she’s 23.
We have been together for around two years seriously, more on and off before.

But our relationship has been good, truly, etc. but recently I can’t help but find myself unattracted to her and she’s starting to notice, seeing that I’m acting more distant etc.

Thing is I love her and I don’t want to lose this relationship over something like that.

But when I met her, the appearance, the vibe I got from her was different. And as we both got comfortable around each other we both let go a bit, her way more than me.

Like she gained some weight and it’s bothering me especially because it changes her face so much.
I tried to talk about it with her kindly but that backfired of course.

It’s just what do I do, any advice.