Hey y’all. I work from home so all day I am wearing either unsupportive slippers or my worn crocs. I know these are not helping but I am wondering if anyone has recommendations for slippers that are supportive and decrease ET pain. Thanks in advance ❤️
Here is a REALLY great workbook for partners of Trans folx. It’s super great for those of us whose partner began their journey after the relationship started.
For reference, I am a mental health therapist by trade in Texas and Wisconsin (supervisor status in both) so a lot of my posts and recommendations come from a mental health and trauma-informed lens ❤️
I really want to start a thread for partners who take care of their partner post phalloplasty. I want to share my experience and offer any advice possible because this surgery, especially if paired with other procedures like vaginectomy surgery, is a beautiful beast.
About Us (Quick and Dirty):
-I am a cis-gender female
-My hubby and I have three children together (as well as 2 dogs and 2 cats)
-We have a strong village! (Bio family & Chosen family)
-We are based in Texas
-Procedure for hubby was May 2026
I’d love to be of help/support as I’ve learned A LOT. I can share what worked for us and what didn’t, what products we used for his healing, how I cared for wounds based on their presentation, etc.
This will definitely be filed in the “Coolest Things That I Experienced in Life” folder 🩷🩵🩷🩵🩷🩵
My husband is undergoing surgery for phalloplasty soon and I’m so scared that I’m not going to be able to good caretaker. I know it’s my anxiety but I just want him to heal well and be happy! I love him so much 😫