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Worried sick about the animals he may have with him still. Not sure what to do.

Tw: animal abuse

This is a history with him. And at first I excused it as depression and burnout. But over the years with him ai learned he is just genuinely a lazy person who refuses to clean or be responsible.

So when I left after the abuse became physical I was feeling tremendous guilt for not being able to tale the fur babies with me.

Over time I was finally able to take some, but not all.

Each time I came by for things I needed like clothes, the house was filthier each time. It was obvious the animals were not being let out. And were increasingly more stressed. What were once happy bubbly bouncy babies turned into cowering trembling messes.

It broke my heart? But I could not legally do anything but report it and take who I could when I could. Animal control here sucks so nothing came of that.

But he is out of my house now finally. I keep seeing the fear in the animals' eyes that I could not take from him. I have no way of knowing how they are now or where they are. He deleted all of is socials apparently (my aunt was keeping an eye on him out of worry for the animals too)

Idk how to cope with the images I keep replaying in my head. Experienced and assumed based on what I have seen and was told happened to some. It is disruptive to my daily life. I know it is out of my hands. But I cant help but wonder if there is anything I can do to know if they are ok and if not to try animal control again or something. It is breaking my heart that they had to be left with his neglectful rageful ways.

Please be kind. I did all i knew I could. I know some on reddit can be harshly critical, just please understand I did all I knew I could do. Now what I was unable to help haunts me.

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u/Blue-Disaster — 4 days ago

Charge Point charges kwh and time? Any other brands to be careful of?

Edit: There are only two charge options in my area. I have now learned it is not chargepoint deciding the prices. Thank you. Sorry for misunderstanding. I do not have many reference points to learn from here in an ev dry area.

I have been using Charge Point as I wait to have enough to get a L2 Installed, might be months or years from now depending on how life treats me)

But charge point looked to be 20 cents less then the other chargers in my area (walmart) and didnt think too hard about it other then "wow, over $10 per for 1/4 charge, the others must be more then gas if they charge 20 cent more per kwh. Weird I was told charging was less then gas even at fast chargers." But I finally took the time to read the dang screen after charging and say my time rate was charging me more then the kwh rate!

With time included, for me it is about .75 per kwh charged!

Whent to walmart after realizing it is likely actually the cheaper one unless it sneaks in time charge too. It didnt. Was so much better seeing $8 for that same 1/4 charge.

What gives!? I feel ripped off!

Any other brands other then charge point to be careful around?

I saw the parking after charge fee. But no mention of while charging time fee anywhere I looked other then the final screen that is there for like a few seconds. Feels scummy and a good way to trick new ev owners who dont know.

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u/Blue-Disaster — 8 days ago
▲ 1.2k r/blackcats

NOTE: She does have an appointment to get spayed.

Also, apologies for my huffy laughs into the mic. Sad it didn't pick up her chirping. She was sounding frustrated which was making me chuckle.

Stella has been flirting with anything that moves. Managed to get a video of her flirting with her fixed male dog brother.

She has been the flirtiest one I have had yet! Can't wait for her appointment to calm her down.

u/Blue-Disaster — 21 days ago