u/Bonks623

My husband and I are both 37. We have been TTC for 8 years now. We’ve done all the tests, all the things, and have found zero (according to doctors) reasons why we haven’t conceived yet.

My question is… at what point did you decide to let go of that “what if” feeling that you hope for every month? Does anyone have advice for knowing when the time is right? I don’t want to give up on having children, but I am feeling so defeated. I don’t want to give up trying, but after 96 months of let-downs, it’s feeling like it’s time.