My husband to be made a sudden weird move on me and I’m unsure
I was having dinner with my fiancé and he said “will you give me a blow job” out of nowhere and I said he shouldn’t ask directly like that after which we went to his room where he asked me to open my mouth wide and stick out my tongue. I kind of didn’t know what to do so I hesitantly tried to follow but physically couldn’t but he asked 3-4 more times after which he climbed on top of me and pushed his index finger inside my mouth asking me to simulate a blow job and I completely froze in that moment and he kept asking me to do it and said “I’ll teach you if you don’t know how to do it”. He then pushed another finger in my mouth, this time he pulled my mouth sideways with his second finger almost like a fishhook and asked again to show him how I’d do it. I was completely frozen and unresponsive and shocked and didn’t know how to respond. He then pulled his fingers out, stood up and said “I’m coming” in a way that I knew he means he’s gonna climb on top of me again and now I wanted to see how far he’ll go really and so I nodded yes. He then brought his crotch near my mouth and asked me to open it and I hesitantly opened a little and he completely backed off after that. Don’t know what went on in his head maybe he just wanted to test or I don’t know what but that was where he stopped. He never unzipped but he did touch his crotch on my chin. I was open to sleeping with him but this incident made me question things. Is this assault?
TLDR: I had an encounter with someone I love and want that made me feel objectified and my friends called it assault but I’m not sure. Looking for perspectives.