Should I get back with my ex?
Well it maybe sounds like a dumb question because everyone always says never go back to your ex there is a reason why you broke up and I agree most of the time but in this case idk.
Okay so a bit of context me and my ex both 18 have broken up like 4 months ago I ended the relationship btw and well I thought for atleast a month that it was the best decision of my life but then I started to miss her at the end of February and that’s normal ofcourse. But I feel like I rushed my decision way too quick and that’s why it also feels like such a mistake. oh and I did break it up in person not over a text I don’t know if that makes it any better.
But there were a few reasons I thought I couldn’t continue with the relationship such as she was so bad at making choices i always had to choose anything for her or like when I make some jokes and some are about her she just takes them way too personal and she is very insecure and always thinks I would cheat on her idk why I have two female friends and the both want nothing to do with me like romantically but she didn’t get that until like almost the end off our relationship but there are a few more reasons like these but nothing major.
So she was heartbroken eventually after I broke up with her and she made suddenly some new friends and they just drink like everyday smoke all that kind of stuff and she drinks not much mostly but well since then she is almost everyday drunk and stuff like that and she has a new boyfriend in the same friend group btw and he is just a rebound and me and her have had contact after the break up and she almost named a list on why she didn’t like him and the positive thing was he was nice and she went into the relationship with a yolo mentality like that’s not really something you should base a relationship off right?
So after talks and talks I find out she still has feelings for me and also wants to get back with me but here is the main issue. She doesn’t want to break up with that guy and not because she doesn’t want to but she is scared that her friends will leave her and hate her forever idk how but sure and because they are in the same friend group that makes it extra hard for her and her main fear is just too end up alone with no one and as I said she can’t make choices so she is like better safe then sorry.
Okay now some positive things hahah
She is one of the kindest people I know she’s funny (most of the time) she cares about others maybe to much she listens when you talk to her like really listens she likes the same stuff as I do mostly and that’s also why we had a relationship for like a year or something.
So conclusion I really don’t know what to do she also doesn’t know we don’t really have contact right now but she wants me back I want her back but she can’t make up her mind that’s the problem so what should I do
If you guys have any advice on what I should do please let me know.
( sorry if my English is bad it isn’t my first language)