So I’m female 17, who recently got into her first relationship . He’s a white man who’s quite experienced. we’ve been dating for three weeks and he posed he question in whether I’ve told my family about us, which at the time i haven’t. Also I’m from an Indian immigrant family while hes a full white man. but i realized i probably owe him at least that much so I told them, and they we re quite supportive if it. however, they told me that education comes first and i have study hard before anything, plus they said that we can’t be going over to each others houses etc. which is understandable form their view, but I’m guessing my boyfriend what’s more of a normal one where we hang out at each others houses, stay over, eat over, meet each others families etc. but i don’t think TAHTS possible for me espe since my family is quite conservative, plus my house is quite small compared to his, they are on a richer side of the area. I think there’s going to be so much cultural clash, but to be fair we be only been dating for a while, but later on there might be issues. I don’t know what to do, cause it isn’t fair for him to keep him hidden almost but we only have one year until graduation which j think after he might be able to come over and stuff. but regardless it’s a confusing situation which i don’t know what to do.
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