u/Bratsociety

I realized today that my “family workplace” ended up mirroring a lot of the same emotional dynamics as my old abusive relationship.

Not in the exact same way, obviously. But the overgiving. The guilt. The walking on eggshells. Feeling responsible for everyone and everything. Feeling trapped by loyalty. Burning myself out trying to prove my worth. 🤨

I genuinely thought this place would be my forever career. Instead, it became the place where I finally learned how to leave.

Weirdly enough, I think this job healed me more than my actual breakup ever did. Because this time I recognized the pattern and chose myself anyway.

After 10.5 years, I sent my notice today. I’m terrified and relieved at the same time. I’M FINALLY FREE. 😁👌🏻🎉