u/Bratuha_Shawn

So my son loves footbal(soccer) and so did i when i was younger and we still watch football(soccer). Waiting for the new seasons. Wben he was 10 i made him dk football pratice and he got good at it. But his bestfriends does wrestling and he does it also. What seems to be for the fun is taking another turn to be something he admires too and wants to do. Is there a balance or should i let him figure out which one he likes best.. football we watch.. we train sometimes.. but i mean i dont have wrestling experience. What would you do if your son wants to switch careerd.. dads help me out.

So my son just turned 16 two days ago and we bad a party and today i noticed something that he is really following in my footsteps, i am reffering to Pubes. So he changed fast when he dropped the towel and i see pubes. He is 16 so it is obvious he has pubes, but should i tell him to always shave KNOWING , mind you that when i was a teen i barely did it.

I mean of course he doesnt know that i did not shave that often also but should i ask him too or just let it be.

I mean eventually you will get the hang of it and of course feel the urge to shave but the younger you learn the better right?

Hey i was wondering if any of you guys were curious meaning did you stare at your son/fater when they had a bulge or just some random thoughts of being the person who they can be open with no matter the topic.

Had this talj with my friend and he told me he asked his son if he loves shaving the son said no. He likes pubes. And bushy. He said since that day he always wondered how his son looks likes when changing or doing some with his girlfriend.

So i saw someone asked a question to the similar experience about having THE TALK with your son.

However, here is my story and i am always open to hear from you guys as we always learn from eachother.

Last week, he came from school and when he came home i did the laundry and he rushed to me and said did you see the black boxers? I said Yes! Jist washed it. He said "Oh Ok" i asked "Why are you asking? Were you gonna wear the same one?" He answered No. (It had Cum stains on it)

So maybe he thought i would caught on what i did yes.

20 minutes later when i was done i asked him "Was that cum stains on your boxers?" He looked embaressed but i said it's oke to jerk off even i do it sometimes . Just be open and don't ruin all your boxers with stains . We chuckled. Later that night he came to me and asked more about jerking off and if it is normal and every question a teen would ask you.

So we talked about it.

Advice needed on: We became more "closer" since we had that talk that we sometimes just walk passed eachother naked and the rest is history.

Is this in your oppinion something that will get the father son bond better and stronger?

He is 15 btw.

So my son is 15 , Of course he looks good and at school he always gets the girls looking and stuff. I have seen it in person.

Context: Lets calm her for the sake of this convo Rachel. So my son and Rachel have a good bond, when they are off school she visits and they often do homework or game on the Playstation. But i feel like it's getting to that moment where it KINDA looks like they are dating.

He is only 15 and she is 14. But let me say this i am just 36 of age , i had him when i was 21 so i became father at a young age so i donr want to act like its bad if he dates now but NOT TO PUT A STOP TO IT , But is it best if i just give him a heads ups about dating that girl that he has to be careful because its waay to young for them to think relationship and with the risk of parents calling me a bad father i dont want him going all in with something he will regret.

(SIDELINE: He started watching porn because ive seen it, which imo is not BAD but idk if i dont give him the best advice or is this just a boys things)

I hope i am not a bother with my question but as a young dad with a teen son it's not easy everytime.

Please answer with all honesty and DONT JUDGE ME.

Caught might be a strong word here but his door was half open when i walked passed his room and saw he had my briefs in his hand and gave them a sniff. I mean why would he do that and should i ever confront him or make it a big thing? We are really open with eachother and talk about everything but i dont think this is something i want to talk about altho i am cruious why he did it tho..

Have you guys ever sniffed your dad or sons underwear? Is it that bad oe am i just overthinking.

Please only serious answers.