AIO being weirded out by a “friends” behaviour around me?
I (17m) have a group of friends whom i am quite close to. For privacy, im gonna call the main 3 Montague, Columbo, and Karaoke (all 17m). I’ve been good friends with Karaoke and Montague for a while now, but for one reason or another, I didn’t really have an opinion on Columbo up until around a year ago. I just chalked him up as one of Montague and Karaokes friends and left it at that. That was until around October, where he started being weird around me. He’d demand that there must be 2 people between me and him during lunch, straight up get up and walk away whenever I showed up, and in general just act like he despised me.
For context, a rule in our group is that if you have an issue with someone else in the group, no matter how small it may be, you text them one on one and try to sort it out individually, rather than involve the entire group. So far, he has not talked to me once one on one, given me or anyone else in the group a single reason as to why he does this, and acts like i’d just called him something when I try to ask him about it, (like he’d just complain to someone else that I was there).
The best thing that ive got from him is that he finds me annoying, which while i cant do much about, doesn’t give him the right to do this imo. Do i bring this up to the rest of the group and see what they think?