Reminder that sucking up to any other group is just as bad as sucking up to white people
Same with holding accountability.
In light of recent events, I notice another rise of Asians sucking up to a certain other group to the point of throwing your own under the bus. It's like covid all over again.
Y'all want to lead with accountability and solidarity by calling out your own, and they're not reciprocating; yet doubling down on their bs. They want to gaslight us, minimize our struggles, and accuse us of spreading divide. To make matters worse, y'all double down on this undeserved benevolence like someone who tries so hard to fit in with people who don't like you or the aunt who slips you $5 hoping you'll like them.
We have to wake up and do better. Allyship is fine, but this isn't how it should work. That means setting boundaries and holding them accountable instead of being a punching bag and giving perpetual hall passes whenever it suits them.
Notice how they have no problem trying to hold us accountable. Then notice when we do the same to them, it's excuses and justification galore. If they were white, you'd have no problem letting them have it. But when it's some other perceived marginalized group, you want to go hush hush?
FUCK THAT. Nobody gets a pass. You'll need to start holding them accountable no matter who they are. We need to put us first and establish boundaries. Every other group does the same. Stop showing your belly first in hopes they reciprocate. That's the shit our parents did, and it should be obvious by now it doesn't work in a country like this. Deep down, people still respect strength and a willingness to bear fangs when needed.
Have some self-respect and start establishing boundaries.