The reincarnation trap theory hasn't made me miserable - quite the opposite.
The purpose of life and the nature of our existence here on Earth has long aluded humanity. When I stumbled on the belief that we here to evolve and grow, I thought, "Well, makes sense. Why else would there be so much struggle and striving?" However, after learning about the concept of loosh - the idea that Earth serves as an energetic farm for extra-dimensional beings - I said, "Actually, all the suffering and chaos on this planet being for someone else benefit, rather than ours, makes a whole lot more sense." The relationship of human beings and the creators being akin to that of a cow and farmer explained perfectly well why humans are kept in ignorance regarding the purpose of their existence.
For years I wondered why I wasn't really happy. I wasn't depressed, but I was far from contempt. Am I missing something? Life has a way of making it seem like everyone else you see around you is having a great time, while you're not. A slight sense of sadness and misery has followed me, which pops up every now and then. I used to think that there was something wrong with me; I used to think I was projecting my own issues and distorting what this world was. But when I read several pre-birth memories of people remembering their incarnation process, what stuck out was how they described the Earth whilst previewing it, saying it looked like a 'black, bubbling mass of just pure evil.'
Suddenly, it all made sense - why something has always felt 'off' about this place. Darkness and pain has tainted this place, reminding me why so many say they feel like they 'don't belong here'. Instead of beating myself up for not being as happy as I want to be, I started to understand what this place really was and that it was never set up for humanity's best interests in the first place. I find comptmentment in the fact that I'm doing okay and leading a fairly easy and stress-free life. In a world like this, that's honestly a miracle to me. Coming to the conclusion that we are being farmed and siphoned for our life force can be quite disturbing. However, there is some solace in actually knowing the reason why the world is the way of it is, instead of being eaten up by the pain of confusion and anger. I feel a calm sense of acceptance. No, it's not what anyone of us want, but it's far better being in the know.