I can’t trust my co-parent
I can’t trust my ex. He lost my trust, he is lazy af (and he is proud of it), and I am struggling.
Where do I draw the line with co-parenting
(ex: reminders and check-ins)?
My current dilemma:
He is having his mom do pick ups for him once a week and I am struggling to check in to make sure she is doing pickup, know the new gate codes, where his new classroom is, and everything else that is important. And I really want to check in with my ex to remind him that he has to pick our son up from his mom’s house on the way home and to not carpool to work with his gf.
I have also asked him to do things that are not getting done. Such as; finding a co-parenting app (because he didn’t use any of the ones I used), getting cloths for our son at his place, sending me updates on our son when he get hurt.
What boundaries do I hold around co-parenting when I can’t trust him?