u/Brilliant-Fly321

Is this just a universal thing or do some people genuinely enjoy being around their in-laws and vice versa? I am convinced that my differences with my in-laws will always create some sort of strain in our relationship, but yet we all just do our best to sweep things under the rug and coexist. What is the best way to deal with in-laws that say all the right things but their actions don’t match and it is quite obvious they don’t like you?