u/Brilliant-Virus-4626

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Opinion on monologuers

How do you perceive people who, when asked a question, especially one of a personal nature, respond with long, uninterrupted monologues that leave little to no space for follow-up questions, dialogue, or differing perspectives? What I find particularly interesting is how seamlessly they move from one topic to another without seeming to notice that the interaction has stopped being a conversation and has instead become a kind of extended self-narration.

I often wonder whether they genuinely perceive this as mutual exchange, or whether many people simply experience conversation less as a shared exploration and more as a space for uninterrupted expression.

At the same time, this dynamic occasionally makes me question myself as well. Because I tend to answer shortly and straight to the point, I sometimes wonder whether that restraint could unintentionally come across as disinterest or emotional distance.

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