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I showed her reference photos. I asked specifically for a dry cut. She told me she had years of experience with curly hair.

She wet my hair, cut it straight across, and sent me home.

I didn't leave the house for a week. Wore my hair up for four months. Started genuinely hating my curls and the worst part is I didn't even connect it to the haircut until way later. I just thought my hair had changed. I blamed my routine, my products, everything except the actual problem.

The issue was simple she ignored shrinkage completely. A curl dry and a curl wet are two completely different lengths. Cutting wet means you have no idea what you're actually cutting. My curl pattern was ruined and I had no idea why nothing was working anymore.

I eventually found someone who genuinely understood curl structure and it was a completely different experience. But it took way too long and a lot of bad hair days to get there.

For anyone who has been through this how did you finally find a stylist who actually knows what they are doing with curly hair? What questions do you ask before booking? Would love any advice.

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u/Broad-Lunch-7360 — 25 days ago

I had a rough experience a while back. Showed my stylist reference photos, asked specifically for a dry cut, and she said she had years of experience with curly hair. She wet it anyway, cut it straight across, and sent me home. I didn't realize until months later that the cut had completely disrupted my curl pattern I just thought my hair had changed and started blaming myself.

Eventually found someone who genuinely understood curl structure and it was a totally different experience. But I don't want to go through trial and error again.

For the professionals here what should someone with curly hair actually ask a stylist before sitting down? And are there any red flags that someone doesn't really understand how curls work, even if they claim they do?

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u/Broad-Lunch-7360 — 25 days ago