AITAH for getting my friend kicked out of a party after she stole my alcohol, even though she’s now claiming mental health issues and faking a suicide attempt?
I (26F) have a friend (23F) I’ve only hung out with a handful of times. We hooked up once before, but that’s not really relevant here. She’s part of our larger friend group that throws house parties.
Every single time we hang out, she gets extremely drunk, refuses to leave at the end of the night, throws tantrums, and guilt-trips everyone. She’ll yell things like “it’s too early” and “I just won’t come next time then.” I’ve physically had to remove her before because she was acting out so badly. She disrespects people constantly but expects everyone to put up with it and acts like she’s above the group.
She has also stolen from the homeowners (our mutual friends, a couple) multiple times, yet they keep forgiving her. She blatantly flirts with both the boyfriend and girlfriend, thinks it’s hilarious when it makes them insecure, and I’ve personally seen her making out with the girlfriend behind the boyfriend’s back. She’s hooked up with multiple people in the house.
Recently at a party, she stole my bottle of alcohol and poured it into her own. I was pissed and told the homeowner to kick her out. She caused a massive scene, refused to leave, pretended to pass out, claimed she took Xanax (which she hadn’t), and lied about everything.
The next day she faked a suicide attempt to guilt us for kicking her out. Now she’s telling everyone she has mental health issues and keeps saying she wants to commit suicide. Some people in the group are starting to feel bad for her and are turning on me for “being too harsh.”
I’m exhausted by her behavior and don’t think I should have to tolerate theft, disrespect, and drama just because she’s now playing the mental health card.