u/BruceFlambeau

Are you sure you know your penis?

There was someone questioning the measurements of many of the flaccid sizes here recently and it got me thinking. Another mentioned “Summer dick.”

As a 5 x 5.5 flaccid there are definitely times it doesn’t measure that size.

Specifically when I’m cold or caffeinated or during and after exercising. I don’t know how short or skinny it actually gets but it looks comically small. Additionally the ball sac is pulled up tight.

If measurements of your flaccid penis were taken when the sac is pulled up rather than hanging low I suspect that’s not your correct and normal flaccid size.

Essentially I believe your Summer dick with a completely relaxed sac is the correct time to measure.

If your relaxed state is not your normal walking around penis I think you might be over caffeinated or an anxious person.

I considered myself a grower for a long time. But I was drinking over eight cups of coffee a day then and constantly stressed.

In fact, an often relaxed sac and a Summer dick might just be a good indicator of overall health.

Let me know your thoughts.

Sound off with your favorites and please be specific about angles, pacing, etc.

Here’s my go to move for fully using my big dick. Note! This can be WAY too much for most women but honestly I have to do it at least once in a relationship to see if we’re going to stay sexually compatible.

Missionary position. Enter her slowly. Just the tip until you’re sure she’s wet enough for deeper penetration. Use lubricants if necessary. I prefer them at the minimal amount.

Now begin working your tip along her upper wall until you find her G spot. Probably about half your shaft inside her at this point.

Now, depending upon her experience level and specifically her experience level with you, you might need to ask if she wants to try it deeper. Already your girth could be challenging. Let’s say you know she can handle it.

Start to position your whole body higher up her torso. Have her put her legs on your shoulders or she can hold them back and out herself. A lot of women like to hold them out to help with your girth. Her vagina should facing the ceiling.

Stay in the high riding position and enter her slowly again but make a “J” scoop while doing so to keep your penis along her top wall. As you are entering her fully position the crook of your penis (the part where you press into in bone pressed measuring) onto her clitoris. You are now fully inside her with the head of your penis inside her A spot, your shaft feels full on her G spot, and your crook is pressing her clit.

You don’t want to thrust in this position. You circle your hips back, down, in and up. Maintaining pressure on all three points. Keep the pressure on and keep the circles tight. You should only be moving about 1 to 3 inches inside her depending on how she prefers you to penetrate her A spot. You might like how it feels to go in and out of that little pocket because it can sometimes have a sucking effect.

If you want to “fuck each other” hard like this it’s accomplished by pushing into each other versus ramming. Pull her ass into you with one or two hands and really grind.

This can be extremely overwhelming for some women. Some women will call it her first great sex. Very rarely you’ll find a woman that likes cervical stimulation. She’ll rub her cervix against the length of the head of your penis and pop you in and out of her A spot.

Let me know your favorites!

After trying all the underwear recommendations here I switched to loincloths which are fundoshi style underwear.

There’s a tie style waist band and a full back but you wrap the flap forward into your waistband to cover your genitalia.

The good part is this is the most comfortable I’ve been the last week. Absolutely the best way to provide coverage but to also let them hang.

The bad part is they look ridiculous and there’s no support if you want it.

Pouch styles weren’t for me because of how high up your waist the pouch started. It really took the toll on my balls to be lifted up that much.

Boxers were a no go because they’d just pull in super tight when I’d sit and split my balls or worse catch the seam on one.

So give ‘em a try if you’ve never found comfortable underwear.

Thanks to BDP for the recs!

Edit: 7.5 x 6 erect and 5 x 5.5 flaccid. Balls 2”x1.5”x1.5” each.

Previous measured flaccid wrong because I thought toilet paper rolls were 5” around. But at 1.75 diameter they are 5.5” girth.

Faccid: 5” x 5”
Erect: 7.5” x 5.75”
Balls: 2”L x 1.5”W x 1.5”H (per testical)

Tried Wildman, Realmen, Krakatoa, Mr. Saker, etc.
Largest pouches advertised for each. Some even advertising they can accommodate a softball.

They’re still tight. Like there’s enough room up front but from side to side they pinch and compress uncomfortably.

Boxers are fine while standing. All pinch when sitting.

Yes, I can go-commando but I don’t always want to do that. I want comfortable underwear.

Do any of you know of alternatives? Perhaps there’s a stretchy boxer brand? Or a briefs brand that has a deeper hang?

My issues with pouch underwear is that they start the “lift” of the pouch so high. It’d be better for me if it was much more of a “droop” pouch I could hang into.

New posting here. Looking for solutions. Found the sub. Checked the archives. Tried the brands. Looking for more.

Thanks in advance for your help.