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I have been at the same job for 4 years and I am good at it but I dread every single morning. How do I figure out if I should stay or actually do something about it?
I am not being treated badly, the pay is decent, and on paper it looks fine. But I wake up every Monday with this heavy feeling that I cannot shake and by Friday I am just counting down. I have been telling myself it is just normal work fatigue but four years in I am starting to think this is not fatigue it is just how this job makes me feel.
The problem is I do not know what i would even switch to. I do not have a clear passion or another path lined up and the stability here is genuinely hard to walk away from especially right now. How do you actually decide when it is time to leave something stable but soul draining versus when you just need to push through? What helped you make that call?
u/Bruursema-Sonialis — 3 days ago