30 female dating 39 male 11 months
We get so close and comfortable when we're alone at his place and he wants me with him everyday at his place with my stuff and cat!
However... When we go out his attention shifts to prioritizes other people and leave me in the dust...here's 3 worst Examples!
his sisters or someone calls him he walks off far ahead of me, we do an activity or hike he walks far ahead of me! When I voice how it makes me sad he blows it off
we go drinking with his friends he starts to get close to the other girls and I'm talking sitting thigh to thigh face close up, the girl lifted her shirt to show him something and it just looked too close to me - - then he gets a jug of water, pours her a cup and said to me oh do you want some too? I told him I don't like how close you two are... So he grabs me and says have you met her before? To the other women.. I was so angry and embarrassed, drunk, I was trying to leave and couldn't get an uber, when I called him for help he said it's not his problem.
he takes me to a fancy hotel in Whistler so he can go snowboarding with friends and his sister but he doesn't come down the mountain until 5pm.. I was so bored all day and upset by the time they got back I ignored his calls. They had drinks he let her in our hotel room and she rummaged through my luggage to wear my bikini... They came down together and I was so angry I left to a different area and expressed why I was upset to him but he laughed it off and said it wasn't a big deal. Then we went up to the hotel room and his sister ended up calling pissed drunk he brings her to our hotel room... She sleeps in our bed and he goes to get pizza. I was weirded out I went back down to the pool for 2hrs and when I came back they were sleeping in the bed.. Opposite ends but still it was 11pm. I begged for him to get her out she had her own place in Whistler to stay but at the end of it they decided to go get more drunk together by 12
I drove home devistated from that day because I've never felt more overlooked? Neglected? Just not cared for or seen and I don't understand what goes through a guys mind when he behaves this way to his partner.
Also he never checked in on me the next day to make sure I was safe it was a three hour drive :/
The part of me that fell in love wants to stay but the hurt part wants to detach.. :(