I bought a very popular text on Hekate called "Liber Khthonia." But do you think the Latin used for the title is correct? Shouldn't it be Liber chthonios (a declension of the second Greek term), or at least liber ctonius in Latin?
So, I had this friend, but things weren't going great, because we were drifting apart. One new moon night, in desperation, I went to a crossroads with a Marian shrine, turned around three times to the left, and asked Hekate (from whom Mary, I believe, took some of her attributes) to obsess my friend, so that she would think of me constantly, want to see me, and suffer from my absence. I used her angriest and most vengeful names, like Brimo. I also poured a drop of my blood at the center of the crossroads and left a coin as an offering. I was very determined and focused. A couple of days later, an argument arose out of nowhere, and my friend and I stopped talking. I tried to contact her after three months, but I discovered that she is truly obsessed with me, though not in the way I had hoped. Every sentence I say is burdensome to her; my presence makes her impatient, in ways that weren't there before. I'd like to know, technically, how I can reverse this spell with a reverse rite. I know Hekate isn't a demon, but since what I did is very similar to what's sometimes done to demons, I thought maybe I'll find an answer here. What worries me most is that I used my own blood for the rite, so I can't just say "sorry." I was an idiot, I know.
I need your help. I had a friend I was losing. Gripped by desperation and grief, because things weren't going well, I asked Hecate for an obsession spell. I went to a crossroads with a shrine to the Virgin Mary, turned around three times, and poured a drop of blood into the center of the crossroads. I prayed with all my will that the person in question was obsessed with me. That she wanted to see me but couldn't, that she thought of me often and grieved my loss. I invoked Hekate with many ritual names. Then I left a coin as an offering. All my will was concentrated in that gesture.
Two days later, an argument arose out of nowhere, and my friend and I separated for three months. Now, she's obsessed with me, but in the worst sense of the word: she's intolerant, she considers me a burden, and my mere presence makes her feel suffocated. Please tell me how I can undo this thing that has worked so well, but not the way I wanted it to.
I tried praying to Hecate and calling on other entities to lift the spell (the archangels and God himself, even though I don't have a good relationship with Him, but it didn't work). What can I do? Is there a ritual? Please let me know if you have any suggestions, whether you speak from direct experience or cite a source.
Please tell me if it is the wrong subreddit for such a question. I will post this question in a black magic subreddit too.
Thank you