i hav had this very complicated thing going on a guy, we never dated, we really could hav and it would hav been so amazing but something happened between us last july and ever since then our friendship got ended, it was all my mistake i know but now the only reason why he doesnt wanna talk to me is that he thinks im really attached to him and i was depressed too last year so everything that would happen between us would make me really anxious and he doesnt want that to happen again although i think he really does like me back alot , so its just hard to explain to him that it wont be that complicated if we are just together
its long distance and in feb we decided to try once and talk again in july but then i dont know i was really stupid at that time i was not ready to let go and just sent him a lot of texts for so many days even tho he wasnt replying and he had warned that if i spam msg him he will block me, so after like 2 weeks he did block me
i asked a friend of mine to reach out to him (she's a stranger to him) and she did reach out and they were having a conversation about it n was trying to help (she was conveying my messages to him ) but she said she wont convey any messages now and i agree i really overwhelmed her but i was really heartbroken at that time n she was one of my bestest friends and she had a conversation with him about how exhausting i am being to her and just sent me two screenshots of it, not the rest of it
i was really heartbroken already and just wanted the conversation they had, no more conveying messages and i agree i asked her a lot but i thought she'd understand but instead she complained to him about it and then he sent me a message through her that he never lost any respect for me but today he did and a lot of stuff
im trying to message him from my spam account to ask him to talk to me just once, just one question before may cause if i dont take a break from texting him he obviously wont think in july that im just a bit detached, he hasnt blocked that acc but he hasn't accepted the msg request either
what should i say to him to make him respond?