Problem/Goal: I don't know if this is my problem but I'm doing my best to respond to her indirect confession.
Context: I'm working at the Grocery Store as a Bagger and there's a Cashier who has a crush on me. I'm 25 years old and she is 23 years old.
My coworker told me that there's a Cashier that has a crush on me. He said that she fell in love with me because of my "overwhelming kindness". Not to be boasting but it's a normal thing for me to avoid having a beef with coworkers and causing a lot of stress. I thought it was a joke until many Cashiers followed, telling who it is and turn out it's true. She sometimes giving me a food during lunchbreak but not her personally, she's telling other Cashiers to pass the food to me. She added me on Facebook but no messages from her. The days passed, she confessed to me but not personally or online. She told the other Cashiers again to pass the confession to me. That was weird for me. I tried to talk to her but she kept on avoiding the topic until it went awkward to talk then stops. I stopped talking to her to avoid distractions during worktime. Then the day came, Cashiers told me that she was very sad and feeling ignored by me. They passed her question to me that what am I to her. Again, it felt weird. I passed the message to Cashiers, telling her that stop ignoring me and talk to me. Days passed, I still ignored by her, receiving food to her, my chats are not seen by her, and my coworkers are distracting me with the guilt-tripping topics of ignoring her. She kept posting in Facebook about someone who loves is getting ignored. It's distracting me and I cannot focus on my work. I want to confront her but I don't want to cause a misunderstanding and trouble. I don't want someone to get hurt by this. What am I gonna do if I have a lots of attempted talks to her but getting shut down?
Attempts: I had enough and quit in a "love" situation since 2022 because of a broken relationship then trying to start again many times but failed so I spent a lot of my time thinking of myself and my siblings. I don't have a feelings to her. I'm trying to start over again by talking to her and maybe if our situation have progressed, I might change and ask her out.
I want to know her more but I ignored by her many times. There's a moment that I kept talking to her then she went angry and shooing me away. I chat to her Facebook account many times but she didn't "Seen" it yet.