I am in 5th sem in Nursing School. My 4th Sem result just came and its showing back in AHN 2 exam. I am sure the exam went well. I will apply for revaluation but everyone is saying DU is hopeless in cases of revaluation. I am preparing to apply abroad in Germany after graduation so will reattempting the paper screw up my chances of landing a job there? Would be grateful for any guidance.
This will be a long post because it will be covering the whole story please bear with me. I am 21 (F), I have a brother 8(F) who's autistic and my parents are divorced. My father was extremely physically and mentally abusive to my mother and me since my childhood. But my mother like most of the women tolerated it because of lack of support and fear.
Growing up there were frequent fights where sometimes when things escalated my maternal grandparents intervened and my mum left to live with them for sometimes(like my mum after marriage didn't even have proper washroom facility so they had a fight over that, once she was beaten a lot so she left for sometime) but she always returned after coercion from both sides.
When I was in 9th grade in 2019 my mother contacted dengue and got pretty sick. My father refused to get her treated and even pushed her to do household work during this time. So again my maternal grandparents took her with them to get her treated. But because she had grown so weak I insisted them to take her with them for sometime so she can recover properly. But because my father won't have allowed her to leave with them they had to surreptitiously escape from home when he was at work. My mum also took my brother with her because he was a kid but I stayed back with my father because I was in School. So I was alone with my father and grandfather.
After a month or 2 ig my father without informing me or her went to my maternal grandparents house where my brother and mum were residing and had a physical altercation with them after he tried to hit my mum. In that my Mama (Mu uncle-Brother of my mum) got his finger fractured. So he filed and FIR against my father (We have the FIR and medical reports). Then my father came back home and after a few months filed for divorce without informing me. My mum was unaware of these legal things at that time so she ignored the notices which led to him securing the divorce singlehandedly.
In 2021 my grandpa got extremely sick and when his condition got worse my father contacted my mother to come home with my brother because he wanted my grandpa to see his grandchild for last time. Though my mum was scared she actually decided to come but my grandpa ended up passing away before that could happen. So she arrived at his funeral and helped my father in the rituals and around the house.
I was in 11th grade that time and was enrolled in Aakash coaching for NEET which my mum paid for. So for my education she ended up staying with my father till 2022, during this time my father was verbally abusive but not physically. After my 12th we again have to run away from the house in my father's absence (because I wanted to study medicine or nursing and my father was not willing to spend on my education) and my mum actually took some of the furniture and stuff with her (All this stuff was either from dowry or she paid for it herself but we don't have any receipts for that). So fast forward to now in 2026 my father has filed for the custody of my brother in court and I am scared of his winning it.
Can someone please give me an advice I will be really grateful for that?🙏🙏
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Same as the title. I am a nursing student from India, 21 and confused. I have planned to move to Germany after graduation. I know all the steps from the research I've done on the Internet solely. Like getting your credentials Translated to German and verified. Passing the language exam. Finding an employer going to Germany. Doing the adaptation course. Passing the Kenntnisprüfung or Anerkennung exam And getting your license registered. I mean, it all sounds very straightforward on paper. But I haven't really talked to anyone who has been through this process. So I have no real insight. Also, I haven't really received good reviews from people who have moved there. Some say that in general German people are very cold. The bureaucracy sucks. And it takes hell amount of time for any paperwork or to do anything. And you can't be Integrated and assimilated into German society No matter How hard you try. I remember in one review. I read in a review that one person wasn't permitted to see their Critically Ill mother and she ended up passing two days later (This came as a major blow because I have a single mother). How much of it is True? If someone wants to share their experience, positive or negative. Or want to give me any advice? It would be much appreciated. Thank you.
Same as title. For context I am a Nursing student from India, 21 and confused. I have a single mother, and I am quite extroverted by personality. My literal goal is to take care of my mother while also travelling the world, meeting new people and exploring(striking a balance basically). I first thought of moving to the States but the Visa process there takes too long (13 years for EB3), also healthcare is not too good. In UK the job market is pretty bad. In Germany the bureaucracy sucks and people are cold in general, keeping aside the language barrier. Don't get me wrong, I an not delusional who thinks life is all rainbows and sunshine. I know one has to work hard and bust their butt to move to another country and integrate. But since it is a big decision I want to take other people's perspective too. Any advice is much appreciated.