Narc Dad did nothing to help dying mom
Warning. Disturbing post.
My 87 year old dad did not help my 80 year old sweet mother when she was dying. She had heart disease and was taking aspirins, scheduled for a stent in 2 weeks. She woke up very weak and vomitting blood at home from morning to night. My dad was fully aware and home all day. He didn’t call me.
At midnight, in bed, he told me she was shaking and moaning and it suddenly stopped when she passed. My father: sitting on a chair watching tv beside her. He called 911 after she took her last breath. Then…. He called me.
I cleaned up all the blood soaked towels in their bathtub. I was too numb and shocked at the time to say anything.
He takes NO accountability. Says he asked my mom if she wanted to go to the dr and she told him no. She had tremendous blood loss and was probably not thinking clearly.
She ended up passing due to a bleeding ulcer, tremendous amount of blood loss. Note. This could have been treated if she got proper medical attention!!! This was an emergency and my dad did nothing. He does not have dementia. Still drives. Still works. Goes to the dr for himself constantly. Takes his blood pressure at home daily.
I hate my father for not doing anything.
I tried to speak to him about it and he has now cut me out of his life. He’s a cruel man.
Do I go to the police with this?